A mentor is an experienced and trusted advisor. There are many experienced archers, there are few that are trusted advisors or mentors. There is a need for mentors in the archery community. The youth archers have heroes, but mentors? How about the parents? There are some great coaches that are mentoring to parents and youth. However, few have been a parent of an archer that has competed from cub to pro. There is a handful of parents out there that are seasoned, weathered and wanting to help.
It is unfortunate that many professionals do not see the opportunity to mentor to the youth. It is also understood, that they are there strictly for business and adding the pressure of social requirements is difficult. It would also be distracting for some many star-struck archers. Many archers do make themselves available at times when not shooting to be able to say hello. However, there are very few mentors that are helping the youth grow into better archers. There are great coaches, but the coach is not on the line next to the archer.
For archery parents, there are always the few standing junior parents. By the time most archers compete at the junior level, there are few left standing. Many archers move away from archery during high school and especially during college years. School is demanding, being a top archer is extremely demanding. By the time our youth reach the junior/senior divisions of archery, they are young adults. The time and investment in our archers are substantial.
There is a wealth of wisdom that has come with years of competitions and travel under our belts, as parents of aging out youth. In Vegas, in a conversation with another seasoned parent, we discussed finding a way to an archery parents mentor program. Or a discussion area, an area that will allow questions, thoughts, and ideas to be shared. A place of other archery parents to seek advice based on other seasoned parents experience. This year, the archer will be heading to college. The time spent at tournaments will be less, allowing more time to create a group of parent mentors available to help other parents. Time to prepare the next youth generation.